male “feminists” or whatever you people are calling yourselves these days basically do exactly the same thing as the friend zone, they’re just smart enough not to call it that
- they’re only nice to women when they think they can “get something” from her. either it’s sex, or friendship, or just a compliment of “wow, What a Great Guy!” women they don’t think they can sway are thrown to the dogs as not being worth it
- literally only like to talk about feminist issues when it’s conversations among other women. ive never seen a man (offline, here, wherever) actually try and stop their friends from making a sexist joke, or hassling a woman (verbally, physically). but men LOVE to voice their opinions on what they think feminism should be focusing on, or their opinions about “what is womanhood” or “why x is important” and if you, a woman, disagree, they just snidely shut you down
the only difference is they wear revolutionary berets instead of fedoras
I like how people act like you can’t be racist and sleep with a person of color. As if misogynists don’t sleep with women all the time.
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I’m often faced by this when talking about my opposition to interracial pornography. People think, even after I explain myself, that it offends me morally because I am racist, and offended by the image of a black person having sex with a white person.
In reality, It is because it’s fetishized like bestiality. Like it’s terribly kinky that a white woman would have sex with a black man. Always a black man who is always portrayed as hulking, unintelligent, and beast-like, with an insatiable appetite for penetrating white women as to render them “fallen.”
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